Missed miscarriage # 4 blighted ovum again

Well in the midst of passing miscarriage number 4. Another blighted ovum. At 9 weeks I measured only 5.5 weeks. A yolk sac but no fetal pole. I knew back in December something was wrong with brown spotting for a week followed by a red bleed. It stopped until January 13 when I started bleeding like a period. Got blood work hug was 18,533 ultra sound measured as stated above. Blood work again too days later dropped to 12,333. Then today Jan 18 I started passing tissue. This time it's small like chicken livers. Not like the first one. Stewed tomatoes. I am up a awake because after passing clots all day I now feel nauseated and bloated and gassy. Took all's seltzer. And drinking coke. And water. Ugh. Feel like utter shit. Just. Read recurrent blighted ovum could be caused by varicose vein in hubby testicle. My hubby def has that though guess it fairly common. Anyway says that could cause temp hike of .5 degree to make abnormal sperm. Resulting in blighted ovum. I bet that is what the prob is. It doesn't matter. He won't get checked so who cares. Plus I don't think I have the energy for another baby anyway. Though gosh I would love one. But I'm not going to push things right now. I. Tired. Wiped out. Bloated. Sicky. Yuk. Want to curl up in a ball.